Life is never a linear journey. It twists and turns and occasionally throws you off a cliff when you least expect it. Sometimes, you choose to take a new path. Other times, the decision is made for you.
Either way, major life transitions create a feeling of being unmoored. You're at a crossroads, unsure which direction to take and the only thing you know for certain is that something has to change. The status quo is just treading water. But where to even begin?
The decisions in front of you are piling up. (Or maybe it's just the same set of decisions, stubbornly staring at you, waiting for you to do something.) As soon as you get accustomed to a new rhythm, something else pops up. It's a sick game of Whac-A-Mole and you're playing with one eye closed.
You feel like you're in the passenger seat of your own life, only able to make an occasional suggestion of where to go next that will likely fall on deaf ears.
If you've been able to make a major transition, it's possible it isn’t what you expected. That exciting career move suddenly comes with stress you didn’t see coming. Moving in with a partner reveals conflicts you never noticed before. Becoming a parent reshapes your identity in ways you weren’t prepared for. Even the “good” changes can come with unexpected grief, doubt, or guilt.
These are the emotional reactions that can feel impossible to talk about. How do you explain that a long-awaited promotion is making you miserable? Or that a breakup feels like a giant relief? It's isolating and confusing when your emotions don’t match the generic script you and others had expected.
Therapy is about giving you the space to process what’s actually happening and figuring out a way forward.
Here’s what we’ll do together:
Transitions are uncomfortable by nature. We’ll find ways to keep you grounded, build resilience, and manage the fear that comes with stepping into the unknown.
The first step is untangling what’s really going on beneath the surface. Are you grieving the past? Afraid of the unknown? Questioning your identity? Naming the emotions (even the contradictory ones) makes them easier to navigate.
Change can make you feel powerless, but you don’t have to stay stuck. We’ll identify what’s within your control and create a plan that makes this transition feel like something you’re actively shaping, rather than something that’s just happening to you.
Whether it’s a new role, relationship, or stage of life, we’ll work on balancing who you were with who you’re becoming—so you don’t feel like you’re losing yourself in the process.
Change doesn’t have to mean losing your footing. It can be an opportunity to step into something bigger, stronger, and more aligned with who you are.
Our therapists help you navigate life transitions in a way that feels supportive, steady, and actually helpful—not like you're being rushed to “figure it all out” before you're ready.
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Do I really need therapy for something “normal” like a job change or breakup?
Do I really need therapy for something “normal” like a job change or breakup?
What if I chose this change? Shouldn’t I feel good about it?
You can feel proud and panicked. Grateful and grieving. Even positive changes come with stress, doubt, or a sense of loss. Therapy gives you space to sort through those mixed emotions—without judgment, without pressure, and without pretending everything’s fine when it’s not.
What if I chose this change? Shouldn’t I feel good about it?
I’m in between things and I don’t even know what I want yet. Is that a problem?
I’m in between things and I don’t even know what I want yet. Is that a problem?
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